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Of all the manipulative ways to get someone into bed, pickup artistry has to be up at the top of the sleaziness scale.
The PUA community has boomed in recent years, with young incels (and the generally unlucky in love) retreating online to be given the ‘wisdom’ of those who claim to know how to meet women.
‘Worryingly, the routines often include an escalation of suggested kino or touching, which completely disregards consent.
Men are encouraged to believe that ‘no’ is just ‘token’ resistance.’ Guys, please don’t touch people unless you have consent – and for goodness sake don’t randomly bite necks.
Swami tells uk, ‘There’s a range of famous PUA set pieces, with dubious names ranging from Strawberry Fields to The Cube Routine, which the so-called experts claim are tried and tested to guarantee success.
The general idea is that you’re supposed to anchor your actions to someone’s emotions.
Then, when you do that action again, you can promote a response in the other person and they don’t even realise it.
An example from Professor Swami is ‘you’re actually pretty with makeup on – it makes your nose look smaller’.
He says: ‘Negging directly contradicts the idea of reciprocity which is an important pillar of social psychology and a key component of attraction.