Dating what to talk about on first date
For starters, you could ask them if they've ever been to the coffee shop, park or wherever they proposed to meet, before, or if they spend significant time in that neighborhood, says Carbino.
You don’t want to end up with someone who just doesn’t care about the same (or similar) things you do.
Jane Greer, marriage and family therapist and author of . “In this example, you’re looking for more information about their background and line of thinking, rather than just a description of their job,” says Greer.
To determine if your person of interest is relational or self-centered, note if they inquire about you at all, recommends Dr. “When you answer, do they immediately turn it into talking about themselves, or can they stay on you for any time at all,” he says.
Those first dates are often sprinkled with uncertain pauses and looking around the restaurant to see if your food is coming.
It’s important to ask the right questions and talk about appropriate things.